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Baloch Woman Lacks Basic Liberty
Second, obviously “Woman Lacks Basic Liberty” is an issue which is not
only confined to the Balochistan of Iran, rather this case is clearly
observable in other parts of the country, as well as in other developing
countries. Women are suffering more or less in these countries. In some
communities higher degree of intensity, and in some others lower degree of
intensity can be observed. And this degree of intensity can be determined by
the role of religious institutions, social traditions, customs, and
political climate. In
this paper we shall have a short general description of the past say: 1940s,
1950s, and then our focus shall turn on the present with a critical view.
That will lead to a discussion about relationship between man and woman, and
in the end, we will discuss the process of over coming the existing
fundamental obstacles to self-development of women. Balochistan located in
eastern part of Asia, north of Gulf peninsula occupied by three countries:
Iran, Pakistan, and Afghanistan. That part of Iran was incorporated in 1928
and known as Balochistan of Iran, and its capital is Zahedan. Balochistan is
a vast land. It is a Mullah dominated community. Social traditions and
customs play a vital role in the lives of the people. Balochs are religious.
They are simple in both heart and mind. Balcohs are hospitable and are
distinguished in hospitality. They are patriotic and loyal. Balochs are
brave, and are peaceful, however, as long as there is no apprehension of
despotism and oppression.
Women were not allowed to dress according to their own choices nor allowed to take part in decision making, and were confined to taking care of the houses and raising children… This is a glimpse of our past. And the past is almost the reflection of the present. Even, today despite the changes, the above mentioned issues are tangible more or less in most parts of this land, especially in rural areas. Today girls can not dress according to their own tastes, and that case of divorce is still applicable in the same old manner. In some parts of this land, the freedom of facing the strangers is still an encroachment of the archaic moral principles, which the so-called modernity has not managed to break these shackles of brutality that have victimized the women for ages. Well, women in Balochistan roughly can be made to fall under two major divisions and each of these two divisions has its own subdivisions.
Today, in the very Balochistan there are women who realize that men have toyed with their destiny. Those girls of yesterday, are today’s mothers now. Some of these people feel that they have been misguided by the narrow-minded ideas of their mentors. So, they don’t want to repeat that same old story in the same old way. Today, in this land, there are women who think of their liberty in different terms now. They know that they have been enslaved; slave of those negative facets of their customs and traditions. These negative facets must be destroyed – why – because, they serve no useful purpose. That culture; tradition; and custom is useful which does not hinder the progress in life, otherwise that must be taken away.
Today, development in technology, communication, and information has waken
the girls and women. This may be one important factor that made religious
mentors to accept willy-nilly some inevitable minor changes, for example: as
mentioned before, previously women were not allowed to go to mosque for
prayers, but nowadays women in Balochistan are allowed to go to mosque for
prayers, especially during the month of Ramadan.
“Girls and women must cover themselves. Because, it is compulsory. They must not be seen by others, because our religion and culture do not permit that. women have no rights to express their views. And, once they get married they have to obey their husbands, whether they are satisfied or not, at any case, they have to follow that given formality. A woman has no right to divorce her husband, but husband can easily divorce his wife by repeating the word “Divorce” just three times. Thus, divorce depends on husband’s will. Why freedom…!? They denounce liberty. They think liberty is absurd. Actually, they hold their own concept of liberty. Women must not take part in politics, because they are incapable of governing and guiding the nation. Because, they are irrational, and do not have that much capacity of reason. Politics is the job of men only. They believe that western talk of women’s emancipation is a disguised form of exploitation of their bodies, deprivation of their honor, and degradation of their souls. Western way of life is a dangerous disease and has grave consequences.”
These men want to maintain status quo, because they gain from it. They want
to protect and enhance the power of their social and religious institutions.
They try to preserve the establishment, respect the tradition, and conserve
the age old social and religious institutions. They believe in inequality of
man and woman, and treat women as the second class citizens. They oppose
gradual changes, let alone radical changes.
Strict and unnecessary prejudice and narrow-mindedness must be thrown away – how – education is one such important way to deal with the crisis in Balochistan. By education, we do not mean only obtaining academic title, rank or grade given by university. Because, there are many Baloch people who hold university degrees in different ranks, nevertheless lack higher rational capacity, logic, and reason, and so move by their instinct and faith. Rather, by education, we mean: knowledge and ability, development of character and mental power, and all that which would lead to the possession of higher will and openness. Women have had enough of men ignorance. They should come to their senses. As John Stuart Mill says: “ Individual should be left free to develop his/her own personality and there should not be interference in self-development as long as he/she does not harm others.” So, accordingly this should be applied in Balochistan for Baloch women… We can learn constructive lessons from our own past. We can also learn a lot from that western political thought which provides valuable lessons - lessons that must be learnt if the future is to be different. It is hard to predict the future. But, for all that we discussed, reforms regarding liberty of women would not come up for the time being. Because, it is not an immediate realization, and our community lacks that rational will. So, we have to wait for many years – why – because, this must grow. It must have natural and continuous growth.
This land needs a mental revolution, a complete change in thinking. We need to re-build our structure. For many years this structure has not been changed, and nor will change in the near future – why – because, new structure must spring from the course of event. Old structure can not be replaced overnight by the new one, because it is dangerous. It must be re-created naturally and evolutionary by the necessity of the time, and this would take its own long time. And, once new structure established, then changes would begin to take place in the society where women would be able to develop and flourish their own personalities, and would enjoy positive liberty without being disturbed by men. |